are u truely independant???

u meet many people at many places. sometimes a moment is enough that he/she captures a place in our heart. we would whisper to ourselves “he/she is of my type.” and we simply start loving them…sometimes unconditionally…
they become a part of our life,they are so much considered and held in our heart…it would be so late whenyou realize that your heart has over ruled your mind and now your mind cannot command your heart to forget that person…
life flies light without expectations… hope lighten your life, but realities pains you…but, you cannot live without expecting and hopes give you the courage to move on…
if i argue from both the ends, the verdict would be so hard…i would end up leaving the question, are we all truely independant, even to love someone???